I remember the hand coff

 Babaji: SM. You ask him when the time comes. 

... ...

Babaji: you don’t know what a hand coff used for? 

Tie people up.

Babaji: you have a group activity, so they might use it already. Blind fold, hand coff.

Okay. I go to sleep.

Babaji: They know you gonna resist okay. It’s not they don’t know. They have a way testing by kiss. 

Okay ...

Babaji: you do owe them something ...it’s not that you don’t owe favors to them.

So into sex?

Babaji: very into sex.